Helping Individuals
Discover and Materialize Peace and Contentment

If you are struggling with destructive patterns of anxiety, depression, addiction, anger, or shame, we understand how tough this can be, and we are here for you. You might feel like your anxiety is too hard to control or eliminate. Maybe you feel empty and sad more intensely and more often than you want to be, and it’s taking a serious toll on your ability to be a person. Perhaps you feel unable to get sober or stay sober. Or maybe you are sober – but other self-destructive parts of your life have started to surface and become quite destructive. Maybe life has just gotten too overwhelming or stressful, or you just feel lost. Even though you may feel alone, know that many people in your circumstances need support considering the many challenges you are facing.

Does a therapist really understand what I am going through?

We do. Psychotherapy is one of the most effective treatments for anxiety, depression, addiction, anger, and stress management. You may be feeling like:

  • You are unable to be compassionate towards yourself
  • You are worried all the time and can’t seem to stop your anxious thoughts and feelings
  • You know the answers in your mind but can’t transfer them to your heart
  • Living a clean, sober, and happy life is unattainable
  • The obsessions, compulsions, ruminating, or panic is ruining your life

Even if you are feeling overwhelmed with feelings like these, Psychotherapy can help.

What is different about North Star’s Individual Therapy?

At North Star Counseling Services, we always take a personalized approach to help you reach your goals. We pride ourselves on the fact that we are not your typical cookie-cutter counseling practice, where you are just another ID number and diagnosis to a staff of overworked, under-paid, under-qualified clinicians. Our expert therapists are highly trained, successful, authentic people (many of whom have gone through their own struggles in life) who are committed to helping you in the most compassionate, encouraging, and effective ways possible. All of our therapists have the time, energy, abilities, and drive to ensure that your experience here is nothing short of life changing.

How will Individual Therapy help me?

Psychotherapy can provide the support you need to help you find your way towards a better life. Even if you’re feeling lost now, we can help guide you in making lasting, positive changes in your life. North Star Counseling Services can help you:

  • Start feeling joy in your life again
  • Stop feeling worried all the time
  • Discover how to love yourself
  • Experience and sustain long-term recovery
  • Learn how to manage your stress and anger
  • Be free from obsessions, compulsions, panic, or intrusive thoughts

It’s not easy managing your tough situation but the good news is that it’s possible to feel better. We have the experience to help you.

It sounds like this is something I need to do. How do I get started?

Cool! Call or text us at (631) 533-0315 or e-mail us at hello@northstarlongisland.com to book an appointment or set up a free 15-minute phone consultation. All it takes is one moment to start the process of transforming your life. We’re here for you.

FAQ on Individual Therapy

Individual therapy, also known as talk therapy or counseling, is a collaborative and confidential process that empowers you to address a wide range of mental health concerns and challenges in a personalized and supportive environment. Working closely with a trained therapist, individual therapy provides a safe space to explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and experiences.

Comprehensive Support: Individual therapy offers comprehensive support for an array of mental health concerns such as depression, anxiety, trauma, OCD, addiction, panic attacks, and more. It is a tailored approach that addresses your unique needs and goals, helping you develop coping strategies, gain insights, and work towards personal growth and healing.

Specialized Modalities: Our individual therapy sessions integrate evidence-based modalities such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, EMDR, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and other therapeutic approaches. This ensures that your therapy is personalized and aligned with your specific challenges and preferences.

Empowerment and Insight: Through open conversations, reflective exercises, and therapeutic techniques, individual therapy guides you towards increased self-awareness, emotional regulation, and a deeper understanding of the factors influencing your mental well-being.

Confidentiality: Individual therapy is conducted in a confidential and nonjudgmental space, allowing you to discuss even the most sensitive topics without fear of judgment. This secure environment encourages you to express yourself freely and work towards lasting positive change.

Individual therapy operates as a collaborative partnership between you and a skilled therapist, facilitating personal growth, healing, and change in various ways:

Tailored Approach: Individual therapy is customized to your unique needs, experiences, and concerns. You’ll work with your therapist to set goals, identify areas for growth, and develop strategies that resonate with your personal journey.

Exploration and Reflection: Therapy sessions involve open conversations where you’ll explore thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Your therapist will guide you in reflecting on patterns, triggers, and underlying factors influencing your mental health.

Evidence-Based Techniques: Drawing from evidence-based modalities such as CBT, Mindfulness, and EMDR, individual therapy equips you with practical tools to manage symptoms, challenge negative thought patterns, and develop healthier coping mechanisms.

Personal Growth: As you engage in individual therapy, you’ll experience personal growth by cultivating self-awareness, enhancing emotional regulation, and building resilience. Therapy provides a foundation for lifelong skills to navigate challenges.

Supportive Relationship: Your therapist serves as a supportive and nonjudgmental ally, creating a safe space where you can share openly. This therapeutic relationship fosters trust and provides guidance on your path towards healing and self-discovery.

Individual therapy is recommended when various mental health concerns impact your daily life, emotions, and overall well-being:

Symptom Distress: If you’re experiencing symptoms such as persistent sadness, anxiety, panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, or substance dependence, individual therapy offers strategies to manage these distressing experiences.

Life Transitions: Major life changes such as relationships, career shifts, or losses can lead to emotional turmoil. Individual therapy helps you navigate these transitions and adapt to new circumstances with resilience.

Trauma and/or PTSD: If you’ve experienced trauma or are struggling with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), individual therapy, including EMDR, provides specialized techniques to process traumatic memories and alleviate symptoms.

Relationship Issues: Challenges in relationships, whether romantic, familial, or social, can impact your mental health. Individual therapy assists in understanding relationship dynamics, improving communication, and setting boundaries.

Self-Exploration: If you’re seeking self-exploration, personal growth, and increased self-awareness, individual therapy provides a space to reflect on your values, beliefs, and aspirations.

Stress and Coping: Coping with stress, pressure, and life’s demands can become overwhelming. Individual therapy offers tools to manage stress, build resilience, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

Desire for Change: If you’re motivated to create positive change in your life, cultivate emotional well-being, and work towards a fulfilling future, individual therapy can be an essential resource.

At our practice, we understand that seeking therapy is an important investment in your well-being. We accept almost all insurance plans, and your out-of-pocket costs will generally be in the form of your copay. For those without insurance coverage or with plans we don’t accept, we offer a sliding scale fee structure. Depending on your income, you could access services for as low as $80 per session. Additionally, if you’re concerned about high copays, deductibles, or private pay fees,, we provide the option of every-other-week sessions, weekly sessions, or twice-per-week sessions, to help manage costs while still receiving valuable support.

The duration of individual therapy varies based on your unique needs, challenges, and progress. It’s a personalized journey that unfolds in stages:

Initial Assessment: In the beginning, you’ll engage in an assessment phase to establish goals and understand the areas you’d like to work on. This phase usually takes a few sessions.

Short-Term Goals: Many individuals experience noticeable progress within the first few months of therapy. This period focuses on symptom management, coping strategies, and building a foundation for change.

Medium-Term Growth: Over several months, you’ll delve deeper into underlying issues, explore patterns, and work on long-standing concerns. This phase promotes self-awareness and personal growth.

Long-Term Transformation: For more complex challenges or deeper exploration, individual therapy may extend over a longer period. This phase is characterized by continued growth, insights, and the integration of lasting changes.

Lifelong Skills: While the therapy process may have a distinct end, the skills you acquire in individual therapy serve as lifelong tools for managing challenges, maintaining emotional well-being, and fostering personal growth.

Individual therapy can be a pivotal step towards improving your mental health, well-being, and overall quality of life. Here are indicators that individual therapy might be the right choice for you:

Emotional Struggles: If you’re experiencing emotional challenges such as depression, anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, or addiction, individual therapy offers support, strategies, and healing techniques.

Personal Growth: If you’re seeking personal growth, increased self-awareness, and a better understanding of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, individual therapy provides a structured path for self-discovery.

Navigating Transitions: If you’re navigating major life changes, transitions, or challenges that feel overwhelming, individual therapy equips you with tools to adapt, cope, and thrive in the face of change.

Desire for Change: If you’re motivated to make positive changes in your life, break free from harmful patterns, and cultivate a healthier lifestyle, individual therapy offers guidance and a roadmap for transformation.

Unresolved Issues: If you have unresolved issues from your past, individual therapy provides a safe space to process, heal, and integrate these experiences, leading to greater emotional freedom.

Personal Empowerment: By engaging in individual therapy, you’re taking a proactive step towards personal empowerment, healing, and self-improvement. It’s a decision to invest in yourself and create a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

Supportive Space: If you value having a confidential, nonjudgmental space to discuss your thoughts, emotions, and challenges, individual therapy offers a supportive environment to share openly and work towards healing.

Holistic Approach: If you’re seeking a holistic approach to well-being that encompasses emotional, psychological, and behavioral aspects, individual therapy provides a comprehensive path to address your overall mental health.

Choosing Your Path: Ultimately, the decision to engage in individual therapy is a choice to prioritize your mental health and well-being. If you’re ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and lasting positive change, individual therapy can guide you on this transformative path.